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Counselling where you can be yourself
Qualified counsellors supporting LGBTQIA+ people across England — online nationwide and face-to-face. A non-judgmental space with therapists who understand your experience.
NCPS Organisational Member
LGBTQIA+ experienced therapists
Free 15-minute consultation

★ ★ ★ ★ ★“For the first time, I did not have to explain myself before I could begin. My therapist understood without me having to translate.”
LGBTQIA+ client, individual therapy
1,000+
People supported
90+
Qualified therapists
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Counties across England
A space that doesn’t require you to explain yourself first
Finding a therapist you can trust is something most people have to think about. For LGBTQIA+ people, there is often an additional layer — the question of whether the person sitting opposite you genuinely understands your experience, or whether you’ll find yourself spending the session educating them rather than being supported by them.
At Hope Therapy, we have a team of counsellors and therapists who bring specific experience of working with LGBTQIA+ clients. Some identify as LGBTQIA+ themselves. Others are experienced allies who have undertaken additional training and supervision in this area. What they share is a genuine, non-judgmental understanding of the particular pressures, joys, and complexities of LGBTQIA+ life — and a commitment to providing support that meets you where you are, not where someone else thinks you should be.
You might come to us with something clearly connected to your identity — navigating coming out, managing a relationship, working through internalised shame, or processing the impact of discrimination or family rejection. Or you might come with something that has nothing to do with your identity, and simply want a therapist who won’t make it awkward. Both are equally valid. Our counselling is for LGBTQIA+ people in the fullest sense — supporting the whole person, not just one part of who you are.
What you might want to explore
LGBTQIA+ people access counselling for a wide range of reasons. Research consistently shows that people in the community are more likely to experience anxiety and depression than their heterosexual or cisgender counterparts — not because of who they are, but because of the additional pressures that many navigate: minority stress, discrimination, the weight of concealment, difficult family dynamics, and the emotional cost of living in a world that does not always reflect your experience back to you.
Some of the areas our therapists commonly support LGBTQIA+ clients with include: coming out at any age and in any context; identity exploration and questions around sexual orientation or gender; relationship issues specific to LGBTQIA+ partnerships and family structures; processing experiences of homophobia, biphobia, or transphobia; navigating religious or cultural contexts that feel at odds with identity; internalised shame or self-criticism; anxiety, depression, or trauma; and the particular experience of neurodivergent LGBTQIA+ people, for whom the intersection of identities can bring its own specific challenges.
You do not need to fit any particular category to seek support. Whatever has brought you here is enough of a reason to reach out.
Our commitment to LGBTQIA+ clients
Hope Therapy is an affirming practice. We are clear that sexual orientation and gender identity are not pathologies, disorders, or problems to be corrected — this is our position as an organisation and the ethical standard to which all our therapists are held. We work in line with the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) code, which explicitly states that homosexuality, bisexuality, transgender identities, and asexuality are not mental disorders or indicative of developmental arrest. We also align with the BACP’s position, which prohibits any form of conversion practice.
When you work with a Hope Therapy counsellor, you can be confident that your identity is respected, that the work is not directed towards any kind of change in who you are, and that your therapist is there to support your wellbeing — on your terms, and in whichever direction feels right for you.
Sessions are confidential. There are limited circumstances where confidentiality may need to change — for example, if there is a serious risk of harm to you or someone else — and your therapist will explain these clearly before you begin.
Our Approach
How we work
We offer a range of therapeutic approaches, tailored to what is most useful for you.
Our booking team and your therapist will discuss which approach — or combination — feels most appropriate for what you are bringing. You don’t need to know which is right before you start. If the first match doesn’t feel like the right fit, please tell us and we’ll find someone who does.
What our clients say
Real Experiences
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For the first time I didn’t have to explain my relationship or justify my identity before we could start the actual work. My therapist just got it. That made such a difference to how quickly I was able to open up.
Alex, who sought support for anxiety and identity
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Coming out later in life brought up so much I hadn’t expected. My counsellor helped me process it without judgment — and without making my identity the ‘problem’ to solve. Exactly what I needed.
Jamie, who sought support navigating coming out
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Online sessions meant I could access support discreetly while I was still figuring things out. The matching process found me someone with real LGBTQ+ experience. I couldn’t have asked for better.
Sam, who accessed LGBTQIA+ counselling online
Client experiences are unique. Results vary between individuals.
Getting started
What to expect
Taking the first step can feel daunting — here is how the process works.
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Free consultation
A brief, relaxed 15-minute conversation with a member of our booking team. We listen to what you are looking for, answer any questions, and explore whether we can help. No pressure, no obligation.
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Matched with a therapist
We carefully match you with a therapist based on your needs, preferences, and what matters to you — including relevant LGBTQIA+ experience. With 90+ qualified therapists, we take care to find the right fit.
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Your first session
Your therapist will take time to understand your situation and what you are hoping to work on. There is no rush, no script, and nothing you have to share before you are ready.
Most clients hear back from us the same working day, and typically begin sessions within a week of the free consultation — depending on your preferences and therapist availability.
Standards you can trust
How we match you with the right therapist for LGBTQIA+ affirming support
Choosing a therapist is a personal decision, and we take time to get the match right.
A careful match, not a long list
Therapist availability changes from week to week, so rather than asking you to choose from a directory, we take time during your free 15-minute consultation to understand what you are looking for — and then match you with a therapist suited to your needs.
During the consultation, we will ask about:
- What you would like the work to focus on, and any specific concerns you would like support with
- Whether you would prefer face-to-face counselling, online sessions, or a combination of the two
- Any preferences around therapy approach (counselling, CBT, EMDR, hypnotherapy, mindfulness, ACT, compassion focused therapy and others)
- Day and time availability that works around your life
- Any specialisms that matter to you — for example LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy, neurodiversity-affirming support, or particular life experiences
- Practical preferences — for example therapist gender, age range, or shared lived experience where that matters to you
All therapists we work with are qualified and registered with appropriate UK professional bodies, and we will confirm the most suitable options with you before any sessions begin.
Professional standards across our team
Hope Therapy & Counselling Services has been operating since 2014, and we hold Organisational Membership with the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). We work in line with the NCPS Code of Ethics and BACP Good Practice, and our wider clinical standards include:
- Qualified, professionally registered therapists across the team — registrations vary per therapist and are confirmed before matching
- Ongoing clinical supervision in line with professional body requirements
- Continuing professional development to maintain and develop practice
- Clear confidentiality standards, with limits explained before sessions begin
- Client-centred, non-judgemental and inclusive practice across all areas of identity and experience
- Founder-led clinical oversight from Ian Stockbridge — MBACP (Senior Accredited) – who continues to lead the practice and oversee its standards
Whether you choose face-to-face counselling near you or online therapy from anywhere in the UK, you can expect to be matched with a therapist who is appropriately qualified and suited to the support you are looking for.
Transparent Pricing
Our fees
No hidden costs. Your therapist and fees are discussed during your free consultation.
Individual Counselling
From £65
per 50-minute session
- Person-centred, CBT or integrative
- Online via Zoom or telephone
- Face-to-face where available
Couples Counselling
From £85
per 50-minute session
- For all relationship structures
- LGBTQIA+ affirming approach
- Online or face-to-face
EMDR
From £95
per 50-minute session
- Trauma-informed processing
- EMDR Association UK trained
- Online or face-to-face
Looking for a more affordable option? We may be able to offer sessions at a reduced rate — just ask during your free consultation.
London clients: Location-adjusted rates may apply. Please ask during your free consultation and we will confirm the exact fee before you commit to anything.
A printable overview of our LGBTQIA+ counselling and support — useful to keep or share.
Common Questions
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to come out to my therapist to access LGBTQIA+ counselling?
Not at all. You share only what you are comfortable sharing, and at whatever pace feels right. Your therapist will follow your lead. Many people find that having a therapist who is experienced in LGBTQIA+ issues means they can simply be themselves from the very first session — without having to explain or justify their identity.
Are your therapists LGBTQIA+ themselves?
Some of our therapists identify as LGBTQIA+, and others are experienced allies with specialist training in supporting LGBTQIA+ clients. During your free consultation we will take care to match you with a therapist whose experience and approach feel like a good fit for you.
Can you help if I’m questioning my identity?
Absolutely. You do not need to have any certainty about your sexual orientation or gender identity to access support. Counselling can offer a non-judgmental space to explore who you are at your own pace, without pressure to reach any particular conclusion or label.
Is LGBTQIA+ counselling available online?
Yes. All of our counsellors offer sessions online via Zoom or telephone. Many LGBTQIA+ clients find online counselling particularly helpful — it offers privacy and accessibility, and can feel safer when you are not yet out in all areas of your life. Support is available anywhere in the UK.
Is everything I say in counselling confidential?
Yes. Sessions are confidential in line with professional ethical standards. There are some limited exceptions — for example, where there is a serious risk of harm to you or someone else — and your therapist will explain these clearly before you begin.
How many sessions will I need?
It depends on what you want to work on. Some people come for a focused short course of sessions around a specific issue. Others prefer longer-term support to explore identity, relationships, or mental health in more depth. There is no fixed number — your therapist will discuss this with you and review progress as you go.
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Meet Our Founder
Built by someone who saw the need from the inside

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SCoPEd Band C
MBACP & SNCPS Senior Accredited
“Having worked for more than 25 years in senior management, I saw the same thing repeatedly — people struggling with mental health and relationship challenges, and so often struggling to access the right support when it was needed. It was out of this recognition of human need that Hope was born.”
Ian Stockbridge founded Hope Therapy after 25+ years leading large commercial teams – watching colleagues carry stress, anxiety, and personal difficulty with nowhere to turn. He retrained rigorously, now holding Senior Accredited status with both the BACP and NCPS, alongside SCoPEd Band C — the highest independent competence verification in the UK counselling profession.
He remains a practising therapist, clinical supervisor, published author of PMDD Uncovered, and co-presenter of The Talk Room Podcast. Hope Therapy was built on the things he saw were most broken – and designed, from the ground up, to do better.
MBACP (Senior Accredited)
SNCPS (Acc)
SCoPEd Band C
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