Autism Support
An answer delayed is not support denied
An affirming, structured four-session programme for the wait between recognition and assessment — delivered online across England by autism-informed therapists.
NCPS Organisational Member
Autism-informed therapists
Free 15-minute consultation
1,000+
People supported
90+
Qualified therapists
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Website Testimonials
20+
Counties across England
Why this programme exists
An answer delayed is not support denied
For many adults, the journey to an autism assessment has already taken decades. A lifetime of masking, of feeling different, of working twice as hard to appear half as certain — and then, finally, a referral. And a wait.
The NHS autism assessment pathway is under significant pressure. Waits of two years or more are common across England. For adults who have reached this point — often after years of being overlooked, misdiagnosed, or simply not believed — that wait can feel unbearable.
This programme is not an assessment and it is not a diagnosis. It is something different: a professional, structured space to explore what you are already experiencing, to understand the patterns and traits you have lived with, and to develop self-knowledge and practical approaches that will be useful whatever your assessment eventually concludes. We approach autism as an identity — a genuinely different way of experiencing the world — not a problem to be managed.
This programme may be for you if…
- You are on an NHS autism assessment waiting list and want support now
- You suspect you are autistic and are in the process of seeking a referral
- You have been recently diagnosed and are still processing what that means
- You are exhausted by masking and want a space where you do not have to
- You want to understand yourself better — on your own terms
A note for women & non-binary adults
Autism has historically been identified and researched in boys and men. Women, girls, and non-binary people are frequently missed or misdiagnosed — often for decades. If you have been told you are “too social”, “too verbal”, or “too high-functioning” to be autistic, we understand that experience. Our affirming approach recognises the full diversity of autistic presentations.
A note on masking: Many autistic adults — particularly women and non-binary people — present very differently from the stereotyped picture of autism. If your experience has been repeatedly dismissed or missed, we understand why you might approach this cautiously. We will never ask you to perform or prove anything. You are welcome exactly as you are.
The Programme
Four sessions. Built around you.
Each session has a focus, shaped to where you are in your journey. Together, they provide understanding, practical support, and a foundation you can build on — regardless of what your assessment concludes.
Autism Assessment Support Programme
A structured therapeutic support programme for adults navigating the autism assessment pathway. Delivered online by autism-informed therapists. Available across England.
From £280 · four 50-minute sessions · no hidden costs
1
Your story, your way
The first session is unhurried and unstructured in the best sense — it is yours. We explore your experience of the world, the patterns that have shaped your life, and what has brought you to this point. There are no right answers and no expectations about how you should present. Many clients describe this as the first time they have felt genuinely heard.
2
Understanding your neurotype in practice
The second session explores how your neurology shapes your day-to-day life — sensory experience, social energy, communication preferences, executive function, and the cost of masking. We develop practical, personalised strategies for the demands you face, grounded in an affirming understanding of how your brain works rather than a deficit model.
3
Processing the emotional weight
Reaching adulthood with unrecognised autism carries an emotional cost. Burnout, grief, shame, anger, and relief can coexist in complex ways. The third session creates space to work through those emotions — particularly the experience of a potential late recognition, which can bring up profound questions about identity, lost time, and who you might have been with earlier support.
4
Looking forward
The final session consolidates what has been useful, reviews your strategies, and looks ahead. If your assessment is approaching, we support you in preparing for it. We also discuss what ongoing support might look like — including options for continuing therapy if you feel that would be helpful. There is no pressure to commit to anything beyond this programme.
Our Team
Who delivers the programme
Sessions are delivered by qualified, professionally registered therapists with experience working with autistic adults and adults exploring autism. Our approach is affirming, not clinical. We do not pathologise autism or treat it as something to be fixed. We work from the understanding that autism is a genuinely different way of processing the world, and that the challenges autistic adults face are often the result of a mismatch between neurotype and environment — not a deficit in the person.
We match you carefully based on your specific needs and circumstances. If we feel another service would serve you better, we will tell you so honestly and help you find it. Our therapists work under regular clinical supervision and in accordance with their professional body’s ethical framework.
Our affirming commitments
- We treat autism as a neurotype and an identity — not a disorder to overcome
- We will never ask you to mask, perform, or present differently in sessions
- We recognise the full diversity of autistic presentations, including late-identified women and non-binary adults
- We work at your pace and adapt to your communication preferences
- We apply BACP 2025 anti-oppression principles throughout our practice
A note on confidentiality: Sessions are confidential. There are limited circumstances in which this may need to change — for example, if there is a serious risk of harm to you or others, or where we have a legal obligation to disclose. Your therapist will explain these limits clearly before you begin your work together.
Transparent pricing
Simple, clear costs
No hidden fees. No obligation beyond what you choose.
This Programme
From £280
Four-session programme
- Four 50-minute sessions
- Structured across four defined focus areas
- Matched to an autism-experienced therapist
- Online across England
- No diagnosis required
Ongoing Counselling
From £65
Per 50-minute session
- If you choose to continue afterwards
- The same therapist where possible
- At a pace and frequency that suits you
- Online or face-to-face where available
- No premium, no pressure
London clients: Location-adjusted rates may apply. Please ask during your free consultation and we will confirm the exact fee before you commit to anything.
All fees are confirmed before you commit. A reduced-rate option may be available with one of our trainee counsellors — ask during your consultation. Read more about ongoing Autism counselling or see our full fees page.
Your Questions
Frequently asked questions
Do I need an autism diagnosis to access this programme?
No. This programme is for adults at any stage — whether you are on a waiting list, seeking a referral, recently diagnosed, or simply exploring whether your experiences fit an autistic profile. A formal diagnosis is not required, and starting this programme will have no effect on any NHS waiting list position you hold.
I’ve been told I don’t “seem” autistic. Is this still relevant to me?
Yes. This is one of the most common experiences our clients bring, particularly women and non-binary adults. The historical picture of autism — based largely on research with young boys — does not represent the full diversity of autistic experience. Masking and adaptive presentations can make autism less visible while exacting a significant personal cost. Our therapists understand this and will not require you to present in any particular way.
I have both ADHD and autism (AuDHD). Can I still access this programme?
Yes. AuDHD — the co-occurrence of autism and ADHD — is increasingly recognised and brings its own profile of strengths and challenges. We also offer a separate ADHD Assessment Support Programme. During your free consultation we can help you decide which programme — or which combination of support — is most relevant to your situation.
What happens after the four sessions?
The programme is designed to be complete and useful in its own right. Many clients choose to continue into ongoing individual therapy — available at our standard rates — but there is no obligation to do so. Your therapist will discuss options with you in the final session.
How is this different from autism counselling or standard therapy?
Standard therapy is typically open-ended and exploratory. This programme is structured, time-limited, and designed specifically for the assessment waiting period, with a defined shape across four sessions that build on one another. It is not better or worse than open-ended therapy — it serves a specific need at a specific moment, and is priced as a complete package.
Is everything I share confidential?
Yes. The limited circumstances in which this may need to change — primarily where there is a serious risk of harm — are explained clearly before your first session begins, so you know where the boundaries are in advance. Our practice operates within the BACP Ethical Framework and UK GDPR.
Begin with a free 15-minute conversation
A relaxed, no-obligation call to answer your questions and explore whether this programme is right for you — on your terms, at your pace.
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Individual registrations vary per therapist. Last reviewed: May 2026.